It Has Been Said; "Need To Be Needed"
I've noticed a prominent attitude in society these days.
It very much is a common aspect that people expect you to "need" them. In fact, in many places and social circles it is seen as abnormal to actually be independent to just about any degree.
It seems to be a growing trend from several resulting aspects being political movement, social dynamics and within that, the more efficient means for which to create an illusion of efficiency.
The control issues are rather interesting as well. Many which play out in a real sense directly opposite their designed intentions and postured direction.
For someone to need you to need them in the degree and socially as is becoming more the normal part of society, is rather unhealthy.
It is somewhat a natural thing in many ways to become dependent on ones chosen mate.
For people to insist that everyone in society act as though they are in need of everyone else, isn't even productive absurdity. It is desperation.
It is a form of desperation which indicates a deeper sickness in society.
A sickness which I am starting to believe is the actual result of some otherwise brilliant designs.
Here we are in the very lap of modern progress. I have said it before but again, things have never been better for the human species.
Is it then something that the cumulative mental illness of the rot such progress has presented, has brought about?
To insist that I "need" someone else or be banished from society is a sad approach to the potentials of existence.
Why is humanity permitted to continue to exist?
If I had a successful portfolio at this point in my life, there would be some sorry bastard standing there insisting that I should share the result of my own good decisions and exceptional performance with someone that I am now supposedly mandated to "need."
That isn't even efficient thuggery.
Of course that is an extreme in example, but the consistency of the overlaying attitudes within society are similar.
I won't be commanded to "need" anyone. Especially when it seems to be in the interest of promoting someone else in a manner that disguises their failures.
I have always been a rather open person, but that doesn't mean that I am entirely stupid. I simply won't be forced into accepting some want to be needed in that respect, in my life. Especially when many of them are a physical detriment and danger to my personal health on top of it.
It ISN'T "their" decision as per who I should "need" in my existence. There isn't a sane person or social structure on the planet that would say otherwise which doesn't have an ulterior motive.
This isn't to say that I have shut people out of my life entirely.
I have, in regard to those of my choosing that I no longer want to be affiliated with.
That is a human right. Regardless of which interest they may represent.
Those sort of things should have been thought through BEFORE the decisions were made in directions otherwise.
Get you own portfolios.
Earn your own keep.
Get your own life.
Why is that complicated to some?
Independence is not meanness, or the attempt to make others look inferior for ones own gain.
Needing someone isn't either.
Personal efficiency isn't for those not personally efficient to take advantage of as per their own will.
There is no justification.
Someone personally efficient is just that and personal efficiency is no justification for jealousies.
Those with jealousies of personal efficiencies to the degree of insisting that said efficiency need them - especially in the "or else" category - is indicative of the illness our convenience and success as a society, has bred.
There is nothing to be jealous of pertaining to another's personal efficiencies... unless of course you view yourself as particularly inefficient... which is then your problem, and especially so in failing to pursue your own interests and particular talents.
I don't care "who" did "what" to you.
I wasn't born into this world owing "you" anything.
It is particularly interesting where and when people become so used to the ease of living and openness within society and pertaining to individuals they may have heard about being particularly kind, that they then expect and consider themselves owed something in that regard.
It certainly seems that such leanings are the current direction of American society.
Sad, but just as sadly - seemingly the largest result of otherwise incredibly laid ideas and plans.
It very much is a common aspect that people expect you to "need" them. In fact, in many places and social circles it is seen as abnormal to actually be independent to just about any degree.
It seems to be a growing trend from several resulting aspects being political movement, social dynamics and within that, the more efficient means for which to create an illusion of efficiency.
The control issues are rather interesting as well. Many which play out in a real sense directly opposite their designed intentions and postured direction.
For someone to need you to need them in the degree and socially as is becoming more the normal part of society, is rather unhealthy.
It is somewhat a natural thing in many ways to become dependent on ones chosen mate.
For people to insist that everyone in society act as though they are in need of everyone else, isn't even productive absurdity. It is desperation.
It is a form of desperation which indicates a deeper sickness in society.
A sickness which I am starting to believe is the actual result of some otherwise brilliant designs.
Here we are in the very lap of modern progress. I have said it before but again, things have never been better for the human species.
Is it then something that the cumulative mental illness of the rot such progress has presented, has brought about?
To insist that I "need" someone else or be banished from society is a sad approach to the potentials of existence.
Why is humanity permitted to continue to exist?
If I had a successful portfolio at this point in my life, there would be some sorry bastard standing there insisting that I should share the result of my own good decisions and exceptional performance with someone that I am now supposedly mandated to "need."
That isn't even efficient thuggery.
Of course that is an extreme in example, but the consistency of the overlaying attitudes within society are similar.
I won't be commanded to "need" anyone. Especially when it seems to be in the interest of promoting someone else in a manner that disguises their failures.
I have always been a rather open person, but that doesn't mean that I am entirely stupid. I simply won't be forced into accepting some want to be needed in that respect, in my life. Especially when many of them are a physical detriment and danger to my personal health on top of it.
It ISN'T "their" decision as per who I should "need" in my existence. There isn't a sane person or social structure on the planet that would say otherwise which doesn't have an ulterior motive.
This isn't to say that I have shut people out of my life entirely.
I have, in regard to those of my choosing that I no longer want to be affiliated with.
That is a human right. Regardless of which interest they may represent.
Those sort of things should have been thought through BEFORE the decisions were made in directions otherwise.
Get you own portfolios.
Earn your own keep.
Get your own life.
Why is that complicated to some?
Independence is not meanness, or the attempt to make others look inferior for ones own gain.
Needing someone isn't either.
Personal efficiency isn't for those not personally efficient to take advantage of as per their own will.
There is no justification.
Someone personally efficient is just that and personal efficiency is no justification for jealousies.
Those with jealousies of personal efficiencies to the degree of insisting that said efficiency need them - especially in the "or else" category - is indicative of the illness our convenience and success as a society, has bred.
There is nothing to be jealous of pertaining to another's personal efficiencies... unless of course you view yourself as particularly inefficient... which is then your problem, and especially so in failing to pursue your own interests and particular talents.
I don't care "who" did "what" to you.
I wasn't born into this world owing "you" anything.
It is particularly interesting where and when people become so used to the ease of living and openness within society and pertaining to individuals they may have heard about being particularly kind, that they then expect and consider themselves owed something in that regard.
It certainly seems that such leanings are the current direction of American society.
Sad, but just as sadly - seemingly the largest result of otherwise incredibly laid ideas and plans.
THIS IS A PUBLIC SERVICE ANOUNCEMENT
FEELING LONELY?
NEED A FRIEND?
CAN'T GET OVER YOURSELF?
HELP IS
ONE CLICK AWAY!
Otherwise,
You Are Looking
In The Wrong Place!
posted by Nefarious Aflatus | Thursday, September 14, 2006
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